If you didn’t have to do anything today, what you’d do with your day I don’t guess any of us HAVE to do anything. I would like to think I would have gone and done something fun, like visit Kevin in Bowling Green, or maybe gone to some new-to-me thrift shops, or treated myself to a meal at a trendy place I’ve never considered eating. But I know the truth.I would have slept in (sidenote: I’m rarely able to sleep past 7), cuddled my dog, and cleaned house so I wouldn’t have to do it over the weekend. Not that there’s any big weekend plans that would be put off until the house is clean. If somebody calls, wanting to do anything, I’m game. Even though I went out last night, all this gloomy weather has me feeling a bit stir crazy. It’s funny, when presented with a gifted “free” day, I still want to do the mundane. Three days away wouldn’t even warrant much of a chance to travel far. Am I lazy? I don’t feel overburdened or taxed. Am I in a rut? Or do I just value my peace and not want to be out in traffic, searching for a parking spot in an unfamiliar location? I think that must be it…
Several months ago, I was in Chattanooga for a workshop. I took myself to a local bar that presented itself as safe for a single lady in the early evening hours. It had been raining, and I didn’t feel much like shopping with some of the other ladies on the trip. And truthfully, they hadn’t invited me. I learned about their activities the next morning. At any rate, when I arrived at the well-lit restaurant on the end of a forgettable beige strip mall, I was pleased to ascertain there were three empty barstools, all in a row. I opted for the farthest one against the wall. I settled myself and the bartender was immediately there, ready to provide assistance. I must’ve looked like I meant business. Or maybe I just looked desperate. Either way, I got prompt, friendly service. I was enjoying my beer when an older guy walked up and sat down on the stool next to me. I nodded to him, as etiquette dictates, and he returned a greeting along the lines of, “how do you do?” He had a spiral bound notebook with him, so I immediately made an assumption that he was a local contractor who caught up on the day’s paperwork at the local watering hole. I have seen this in action countless times over the years. Forget scouring the internet and community “speaks out” Facebook pages for reliable contractors: simply…