45 years of Thanksgivings. No two have been the same in my adult life. The things I’ve been thankful for have evolved over the years, as well. I don’t participate in 30 days of Thankfulness posts anymore, but I do text 3 things every day to my friends dear Emily and sweet Cynthia. Here is an incomplete list, but 45 is a good start. Not in order of importance. • My routine. Some days are harder than others. It’s good to have a plan of action to address the day and a basic timeline of how it will play out when it’s a struggle to get out of bed and face the day. Some people’s schedules stay up in the air as they are jerked about for the latest pressing need. I used to thrive in that type of environment but I much prefer the way my life is now. If I’ve got a clear focus on where to start, what needs doing, it’s like puzzle pieces clicking into place. Sometimes the hardest part is getting started. It’s good to have responsibilities. • Social media. I just messaged a friend who has been absent on Facebook for a few months. I miss her. I don’t have her phone number or address (yes, I would totally send a card). We haven’t been close since middle school, but it’s…